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F*cked At 40 (eBook)

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For every woman that has ever felt trapped.  A funny, raw and empowering mid-life-crisis-with-a-difference, vlogger, mother, lover, businesswoman and social media phenomenon Tova Leigh explores what the hell you’re supposed to do when you find yourself living a life you don’t remember signing up for.

“I was bored, angry, tired and sad. I felt all alone yet I had nothing to complain about. I had a good job, a husband who as far as I could tell wasn’t shagging his assistant, three children who apart from being the occasional assholes were pretty good kids; a house, a dog and everything else we are told as little girls we should aspire to. But inside, I was growing restless. I was sick of having the same dull conversations about meal plans and kid-friendly holidays. I was frustrated with having the same married sex I’d been having for the past seven years, or not having any sex at all. I didn’t want to be looked at as just a ‘mom’. I wanted to be desired, to make someone’s hair stand on end and go crazy for me. I didn’t want to live by some label that didn’t represent me. I looked at my messy SUV after my yoga class one morning and I wanted to vomit on it all. I panicked, thinking about how I am slowly approaching middle age and the menopause and I wondered how many years do I have left of being ‘f**ckable’ before everything starts going downhill?

We have many sides to us, most of the time we think we must choose just one character and stick to it. But the truth is, we can be all of them without having to choose. Tova Leigh is finally able to show the world that she is a bit of an idiot who dances around her kitchen in her knickers and makes silly videos with her husband, as well as a responsible parent and a businesswoman who runs her own company.

When you find authenticity it’s hard to go back. It’s like opening a door to the truth and starting to breathe a new type of air. This discovery is what prompted Tova to write, and she doesn’t think we should be sorry for who we are. None of us.


What people are saying about F*cked at 40…

“Most of us know what it’s like to be in a rut, feeling stuck, and convinced our lives are completely f*cked. Tova Leigh has been there, done that, and lived to tell the healing, hilarious tale. Lucky for you, all you have to do is listen.”
— Sarah Knight, New York Times bestselling author of The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck
“A funny, honest account of motherhood and ageing that women from all walks of life will relate to.”
— The Sun
“There is a lot in here that resonates with me… Buy it, have a read of it, it’s good fun.”
— Nadia Sawalha
“Who has spent time in social media comparing themselves to the seemingly perfect lives of others and feeling that they are lacking in some way? Lots of us, especially when it comes to relationships or parenting. Tova’s book is a refreshing dose of reality, telling it like it really is, while being funny at the same time!”
Dr Philippa Kaye, GP and author of The M Word: Everything You Need to Know About the Menopause
“Funny and irreverent”
— Grazia Book Club

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